Friend or Foe🤔🤔🤔

                       The level of socialization between people and even within the opposite sex has increased tremendously over the span of time. There is nothing more so fun cool and satisfying than to have friends around you who are there for you all the time and especially when you need them the most. That feeling of love, of happiness, of assurance and hope and also the feeling that you have "backs" that you can rely upon is so unique and golden that everyone wants to have someone that He/She can call friend. It is by nature that we want to always socialize with people and also always want to seek and have companionship with people that we love and that we can care for just as they will do the same for us. But the question is who is a friend?
                           By my own definition, I define a friend as someone who will always be with you in times of happiness and in times of sorrow. As a person who will love me for who I am and no matter what anyone says he will stick with me at all times. As a person that whenever I feel down or sad or need some company and advice, he or she will be more than ever ready to give me a boost up and to make me feel revitalized again and no matter the time place or situation I will call upon him or her, she should be ever ready to lend me her ears and to listen to me and to guide and console me when needed. To add it all I define a friend also to be someone who will at all times crack jokes be friendly and polite to people caring and humble and must also at all times know that the little things in this life really really counts and matters to me a lot and has my back 100% of the time. Well kinda of a long definition for a friend but what have I got to say? I always want to make sure that I do have a friend that I can trust totally and at all time.
                             You have a friend. She has a friend. He has a friend. They have a friend, but do I have a friend? How many of us ask ourselves that the people who we have given them the title friend are really our friends? Are they friends who are willingly and ready to ever help you when you call upon them or when the need arises? Are they the type of friends that are not around for you when you need them the most and they come at a latter hour with excuses and apologies all the time. Are they the type of friends that when the whole world turns its back on you, they will not do the same but rather shield you and protect you from danger? We need to always ask ourselves questions all the time. We all want people to walk with or talk with or do whatever sort of thing with. We don't want to be lonely or feel sad and miserable because we hate been on our own we want to do all the things that we do on our own with a friend because it is very nice and comforting to always know that no matter how many times you might screw up or misbehave, your friend has your back. We all know that since the creation of time friendships and relationships have existed from the beginning of time and even in animals and even in trees, they all want companionship and friendship because they themselves even know that if they are alone they won't have a much better chance of survival like if they were together or if they had friends. So yes we do know that none of us like to be alone or lonely at all because of how it will make us feel and how it might affect our choices also.
                           There are some people out there in this world who have decided and have made their minds that for them, they won't make friends with people or that they hate people so as a result they want to do everything on their own and as such they won't need friends. I am no expert in Psychology to understand why their mindset is in that way no I am not but what I can say to them is that, they should atleast give it a try.  We by nature are born to be together we are born to socialize and interact with people and make friends. That is a part of us and as we grow up we get to see it more and more in our daily lives. They think they can do all of it on their own but I am sorry to tell you that in some point in time, you will need a friend to help you in this life to help you do things together watch movies play games go for walks and a whole lot. We shouldn't forget that as we age, our strength diminishes also and our timer decreases we need to cherish every minute every moment and second of the time we have got left on this earth for as I always say what are we going to meet when die who knows so try and make as many happy memories here as you can make. Some people get so lonely and sad that they commit sucide out off it.  They can't just live anymore because of how lonely they are. This is not good at all we should try and make friends if not anything at all atleast one friend who understands us for who we are and knows you and will always have your back no matter what.
                             We should all picture ourselves that in about ten twenty thirty years to come when
we all grey and old, we will be sitting beside the fire laughing with our friends and family about the good old days. Reminiscing about the things we used to do and how we behaved and how funny we used to look and behave. We should all respect each other and show love compassion and honesty with each other. For this life is so short that we do not know we will end up in some years to come or even we don't even know where we will go when we die as such, we need to make as many happy memories with each other. We need to cherish every minute that we spend with our friends and family so that in the course of time thoughts like committing sucide just because of loneliness will never ever find a portion in our heads or heart. Thank you🤗🤗.


 Thank you very much for taking time off to read the little I have got to share with you all I really appreciate the number of people who are taking time off everyday to read the little I have got to share. Thank you very much and please don't forget to share and comment also. Thank you and much love will post on Tuesday till then take care you all and much love from me to you all😊🤗🤗😊.                      
       

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