The Truth of the Untruth

                          Occasionally we have forced ourselves to ask questions that yeah we want answers to but what our subconscious tells us what it reads to us what it makes us feel is that do we really want to hear the answers are we not afraid of what we might hear or find. Yeah it is true that we as humans are curious creatures but let's be frank with each other how many of us will really like deep down will like to hear the truth some of us do not want to hear it because we do fear the outcome of it some of us do not want to hear it because we just want to let things the way they are some of us do not want to hear it because it might change our lives entirely into a different direction but the main question we need to ask ourselves is what is the reason that we personally do not want to hear the truth. I am not a psychic or a mind reader to be able to read everyone's mind to see what is in it no I obviously cannot do that. We are our own people because of what we do. The is no right or wrong it is just choices that we make it is what makes us superior to all other living creatures and beings. We decide what we want for ourselves as in whether we want to hear the truth or not as to whether we want something good or bad or as to what we want to have in our future and what we don't. It is true that as we are growing up we learn a thing or two from our environments from the society we live in so sometimes we become or behave in a way that reflects what happens in our society that is sometimes. If we wake up in the morning and greet people be kind to each watch and have each others back do tell me everyone will know that you are from a very good home from a very nice society where everyone is respectful responsible and humble. The reverse is true I must say. But with respect to that, I believe that in a way or two that isn't true. Why I say this is because I can be living in an elite society or a well respected community but yet still be a person of bad behavior. Some might say that look at that young man coming from a very respectful family but his life style is so wrong and bad the next thing they will say is that his peers has influenced him and have corrupted his upright bringing some will even go an extra mile and say that a spirit or unforeseen beings have a hand to play in the waywardness of that person.
                         From my experiences and from my past observations my friends, it is all one word that circles everything that broadens on everything and it is CHOICE. It is by our own choice that we decide to allow peer pressure to get into us. Let me tell you something it is by our own choice that we decide what we want to become whether we want to be influenced by our peers our whether we will not give in. It is by our own choice that we decide either to have sex after marriage or before marriage. It is by our own choice that we decide when we will be ready to mentally grow up or not. It is by our choice whether we want to smoke drink party all night for the rest of our life's our whether we want to use it to leave a mark for others to remember us one day as people who positively influenced the society who helped the sick who gave out arms to the poor who had the backs of people when they needed it the most. We tend to forget that as superior creatures as we are the only thing that distinguishes us from other living creatures is that we have the ability to think for ourselves and make our own choices as a reflection to what we think is good for us. We should shun the practice of blaming peers for influencing a person wrongly or trying to cover for the person; that the person didn't know that what he or she was doing was wrong. Let me tell you we all forget that no one is to be blamed but the person himself or herself because before the person came to be in that way, the person took a choice on his own accord no one placed a gun on your head telling you that hey smoke this weed or behave like this or that no nobody did such a thing we took that choice on our own not because we are ignorant but because we want to do it. That's all.
                     Choices affect the way we live the way we relate with people the way we do our stuff with people but no matter what folks it is we who decide for ourselves and no one else at all. We should all be very mindful about the choices we take about the decisions we take and practice in our daily lives. We shouldn't be myopic or blinded we should seek knowledge on almost everything we do know of or we do not know off. We might think that "we know we know" but in truth we are as ignorant as a baby that is been born. Some take a choice and it can be the last they ever take or the first of many great choices to come in their lives. In whatever we do in whatever we say in whatever we think our choices should be one that will take a way forward for us and not backwards. Thank you. I will be posting every two days on issues that we think of our subconscious on issues that we want to think of but we deny ourselves that privilege of doing so. Please do comment and also do share to everyone. Thank you.
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